Our expert says:
Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
Hi again Greek and thanks for this post. Some time ago you posted that you were still having difficulty in dealing with the termination of your previous relationship, several years down the line.
Things are becoming a bit messy - he's your ex partner (with much unresolved emotion), a so-called 'friend', someone who you have sex with and someone who confides in you. It sounds like scrambled eggs. A few boundaries need to be put in place and managed. If he can't manage the boundaries, you need to do so. Stay away and don't allow him near you... and write what happened off as being the last spasms of something that you need to outgrow.
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