Our expert says:
She shouldn't have been planning a party that would be extravagent with anyone else's money. The Ex is indeed being selfish and manipulative --- and it sounds really likely that she may well be persuading your child that she shouldn't visit you because this would make her mom so very unhappy. Decisions about custody and access must ALWAYS be made according to whatever ywould be best for the child, and separated parents / ex's, etc must NEVER use innocent children as weapons in their warfare against other adults. Maybe you should get legal advice, as it is quite likely that a court would require her to send to child to you and give you reasonable access --- they would be pleased that a man is responsible and loving enough to care about his child.
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