Our expert says:
Sounds like she has an unofficial, informal, arrangement with her ex about access to the kids, and by being vague, this makes it easier for him to harrass her if he wants to. It would be better, I suspect, if a court decided on specific times of access, as then everyone including the girls, would know when daddy was supposed to be hosting them and when not, and it would be very clear to them when he doesn't bother to do so, and prevent them from blaming their mom when he doesn't pitch up. The court might also warn the father not to bad-mouth the mother ; and maybe a couple of sessions with a counsellor would help to explain the situation to the kids through a neutral person
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