Our expert says:
Its obviously deeply upsetting when a partner springs something like this upon you, wespecially if there was no warning, and if there was no attempt to identify problems ( if any ) or to solve them, eg through relationship counselling. At the very least she owes you a far more sensible explanation of what's going on. AThere could be any number of expplanations for whatever is going on, none of them justifying just dumping this on you. Medication doesn't help this sort of situation, and beware of the temptation to self-medicate with alcohol, etc --- which generally leads to worse problems. See a counsellor if necessary, rather.
Whether she might come back or not, we can't tell you, and probably, even with the use of a lie detector, she couldn't right now tell you ro tell herself. Time will tell, though waiting for it to do so will inevitably be uncomfortable
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