Our expert says:
I'm puzzled that you describe this relationship as "finally where it should be" - yet lacking trust on both sides. And he periodically announces hat the relationship is fake. And you fear for your life becasue o his violence This is where it should be ?
Don't assume that if there's something wrong it MUST be your fault, or that it is your task to help him with whatever p[roblems he may have, rather than to be helpful, but guide him towards perhaps more expert help that may be needed ? COuld you persuade him to join you in couples counselling ? Especially if he could be encouraged to see it as a chance to air HIS grievances and concerns ?
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