Our expert says:
This sounds like something the two of you need to discuss OUTSIDE of an argument and when things are otherwise calm between you. It's actually not uncommon for a guy to spend some hours at a time exploring porn sites on the internet. And just like they can be deeply interested in cars they will never drive, they seem to be able to dissociate their interest in the nude women of the web, on whom they can gaze lustfully, from the real woman in their life, without considering that there would appear to be some contradiction involved. Most men are much more easily turned on by visual sexual images than most women are --- but, then, many women are turned on in a slightly different way by the emotional porn of Soapies and Romance novels, becoming deeply involved in and aroused by the stories of emotional / romantic relationships of others, without seeing this as being in any way unfaithful to the actual man in their life.
If this is something of major concern to you, and the two of you can't work it out in calm discussion between you, why not embark on some pre-marital counselling to work this out, and make sure there are no other latent issues which might trouble either of you ?
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