Our expert says:
You know, I may sound like Lady Bracknell in Oscar Wilde's The Importance of Being Earnest ( in her famous line, hearing that a suitor was an orphan, when she said :" To lose one parent might be regarded as misfortune, but to lose both sounds like dowbright carelessness") --- to run into one guy bent on sexual harrassment is unfortunate ; to find two within a month sounds like it'd also be worth examining whether there is some way in which you are especially vulnerable in this regard, in finding such men and somehow indicating to them that this is worth trying on ? Obviously, nobody wants to attract creeps, but some of us manage it more readily than others.
This guy is at least a creep, and is sinister in the devious ways he is using to try to get to you, without apparently having received any particular encouragement from him. This sounds eerily like early stalking, and Elsie is probably right about telling him clearly and pleasantly but firmly that you don't like what he is doing and you don't want a relationship with him, and will take steps such as a restraining order if he doesn't leave you alone.
And Maxi takes up my opening point --- maybe you open yourself too readily to strange men who you really don't know at all, before finding out enough about them to be able to decide whether they're the sort you would want to get to know, at all.
It sounds as though you told him FAR, far too much about yourself before knowing enough about him --- why on earth tell him about your father's busienss, or even that you have a sister ? And what on earth is your dad, or anyone in his company, doing, foolishly handing out your phone number to an unknown caller ? Aren't you, even if you don't realize it, being too encouraging towards men you don't like ?
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