Posted by: Bi-Confused | 2005/12/05

Should I...

Should I speak to my wife about the way I feel - See Panties posting?
I feel so good today about myself - feel like I am constantly on a high - because of what I am wearing. Am I to let go of my fantasies and pursue happiness with my wife?

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Hi again Bi-Confused -

Take a deep breath and slow down - you're wearing panties today and feeling great but don't run away with this.

You need to be calm and rational when you speak to your wife and you need to be clear about what you want to tell her. In your current state of mind you'd probably just alarm her. Don't rush into anything.....

I suggest you try to get a lot more clarity on some of the issues raised through your previous post, and attempt to resolve what this means for you as a person. As Tammy suggested, you're free to contact Triangle Project on (021) 448 3812 for a counselling appointment if you're in or near Cape Town.

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Posted by: Nikki | 2005/12/06

Hi again Bi-C

Like Tammy and Expert says, this is a BIG step.

Please post at Transgender Expert and we will give you some pointers in that forum with the greatest of pleasure.

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Posted by: Tammycdtv | 2005/12/05

Take some more time, put some more thought into it, and speak to other people - including the people on TGSAfrica as well as the Expert here - about it.

If you live near Cape Town, I would very strongly suggest that you contact the Triangle Project and talk to them about it. In other areas, I am sure the expert will be able to let you know who to talk to.

Take your time. It's a BIG step.

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