Our expert says:
If she had tried to kill me previously, I wouldn't have allowed her through my front door, even at gun-point. And the issue of the charger shows someone unbalanced, selfish and unappreciative. She needs to be told firmly and irevocably that beggars can't be choosers, and if she is ever to live with you she must keep strictly to YOUR rules and be concerned with what YOU want - she who pays the piper calls the tune. No snooping allowed - and a set of rules like this, break them twice and she moves out, even if its to the pavement.
Now, my harsh comments about her apply if she is a generally normal and presumably personality disordered person. Its not your fault she failed to work or make any proprt provision for herself during life. Otherwise, one might wonder whether she is ill - perhaps Alzheimers or some other form of dementia. If her misbehaviour is related to alcohol abuse, then she should be sent to a state facility for detox and ongoing treatment, and they should be notified that she cannot return to the address from which she came.
You do not owe it to her to accept continuing abuse by her
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