Our expert says:
Sponsor her hair ? I have never heard of anything so ridiculous ! And moving in should be at your invitation, not at her insistence. She sounds horribly needy and greedy, and far too high maintenance to make a happy relationship likely. She's wanting an indulgent Sugar Daddy, not a mature adult relartionship.
As you seem to recognize, she really needs to grow up, and find a life for herself, and one that is not parasitic on someone else, like you. She needs to become one of the cattle, not one of the Ticks. SHe sounds as though she would seriously compromise your healthy and sensible plans for the future. And you have also your loyalties to your family and sibs to deal with.
It is NEVER EVER a good idea to maintain a relationship with someone who seems "too sensitive" for you to be able to discuss serious and relevant issues with. If she throws a selfish tantrum, that'll confirm that this is NOT the woman for you. Tell her she cannot move in, and find a way out of this entanglement ( which it is, more than a relationship). Carry on with your otherwise admirable plans for your life. You deserve someone far better than her, less self-centred and selfish
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