Posted by: Lebo007 | 2009/02/13

She says I don' t Love her

Hi, I met a lady lats year(2008) June. She' s a student at Unisa and I am also a partime student within the same university. We' ve been speaking over the phone without meeting each other till January this year. The problem is I loved thi gal at 1st site and I' ve been telling her this everyday. When we met, I told her straight away that I love her. She believed me, but when we tried to have sex she refused and told me I don' t love her. Now I don' t know what to do anymore because I Love Her So Much. Please advise.

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She is obvious thinking that you are saying you love her to get her into bed. You have some convincing to do that you really love her. ( do you or do you lust her?) also remember that being in love is not necessarily mean that sex is OK. Both partners have to agree

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Posted by: Wonder | 2009/02/13

Lebo007, just be straight ga o mo rate wa mo duma finish and klaar

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Posted by: vanessa | 2009/02/13

If you love her so much, then you can prove it by waiting for her to be ready to accept it. Just because you tell someone you love them doesn' t mean that they' ll automatically love you back and fall into your bed.
And, by the way, love doesn' t equal sex... If you truly love her, then respect her wishes not to have sex until she' s ready.

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Posted by: Jade | 2009/02/13

you lie wena...just wanna have sex with her ne....

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