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Hi Friday, welcome to our forum and thanks for posting here.
The heading of your post says it all - she is very insecure. Her actions are not about you - they reflect her own issues and problems. Ironically, it is her insecurity that could drive you away from her but paradoxically, your standing up to her could feed her irrational assumption that you have something to hide and we end up with a cycle that is difficult to break out of. She's making her own problems your problem and probably blames you for her insecurity. To be blunt, your relationship is showing elements of a cycle of abuse. Is this what you want?
Sorry to say this but the prognosis sounds relatively poor here. Ideally she should be in individual therapy.
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