Our expert says:
Thanks for the follow-up, naomi. I hope your husband will draw some useful conclusions from the major improvement his sister has made, with therapy. QWhen someone dies, its not unusual for grieving people to seek to bnlame someone else for the death, ESPECIALLY if they themselves have some reason for feeling guilty. OK, so you caused the woman some stress by not liking her --- and surely she caused you stress, too. That didn't kill anybody. Their guilt, and their projecting that onto you, is a problem they have to solve within themselves, and that needs therapy / counselling. Your moving out wouldn't solve it, and would be unfair tom you.
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