Our expert says:
There are illogicalities within the law and social atitudes, I suppose. But you are making several important errors. You are generalizing to the whole world on the basis of your own experience.
YOu're saying : because you had sex when 14 with a man twice your age, and enjoyed it and feel sure there were no ill-effects - you are convinced that every kid of 14 can have sex with an adult and nobody will ever have problems - that's definitely untrue. Many will indeed have various problems arising from such experiences.
Then you are saying that you were entirely willing, independently chose to do it, and was not in any way exploited. If so, you're lucky and most unuual. It is pathetically easy for older people to exploit younger folks, to pressurize or persuade them to do things which are not to their benefit but only serve the pleasure of the older person.
The law and society must protect the vulnerable from exploitation and harm, not cater to the pleasures of a few who may not be bothered.
And, with all due respect, though you don't mention your current age, you really don't sound adult and mature yet, and may have even damaged in ways you don't yet notice or recognize
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