Our expert says:
There's a difference between being "friendly" ( not usully a great idea ) and being passive and accepting, which may be safer. Telling him to go ahead may be interpreted as a go-ahead to do whatever he thinks of, compared with acccepting what he demands, if it is compatible with preserving your safety. And he could argue in court that this meant it was consensual sex and not rape.
As qwerty says, make sure you have taken reasonable steps about safety and home security. Maybe add alarm system and panic button.
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