Our expert says:
The fact that you are not feeling satisfied and at times even violated is enough reason to address this in your marriage. Men and women have different physical and emotional needs when it comes to sex and making love and the challenge is to have both sides’ needs seen to and met otherwise resentment and anger steps in. It is advisable that you seek professional assistance from a qualified psychologist specializing in sexual concerns to assist you in integrating and discussing all your frustrations. If your husband is not interested for now it still is worth it for you to seek assistance on your own.
People change and so does their physical and emotional needs and preferences and what worked in the past does not necessarily mean that your relationship is in trouble – it just needs adjustments to have both parties’ needs met.
You are welcome to phone our helpline – 0860100262 where you could be assisted in finding a practitioner as close as possible to you.
Furthermore you are welcome to visit the following website for any more sexual health information and assignments that could be helpful: www.sexualhealth.co.za
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