Posted by: mike | 2007/03/28


i have a gf. we are in a ldr. we met in november. i love her but recently we have been fighting alot. she is coming to visit again in june and i dont know if we should make love for the first time cos of the fighting. i love her but i dont want to have sex for the first time if it is not going to work.

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ech, take me to your ldr.... a background of fighting isn't a great basis for starting a sexual relationship --- wouldn't ot be best to work out your problems and fighting, even with the aid of a couple fo sessions with a good local counsellor, before that ? Sex isn't a cure for quarrelling

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Posted by: Annelize | 2007/03/29

To have sex to mend a relationship is just as stupid as having a baby to mend a relationship. Don't go there at all!

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Posted by: Raven | 2007/03/28

Worry about June in June.

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Posted by: Gen | 2007/03/28

Why do you want to have sex with this girl if you are not sure if it is going to work out?

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