Our expert says:
Hasn't this guy heard of contraception ? Infidelity is bad faith, but creating other children is especially unfair to everyone involved, and highly irresponsible. No such affair could be considered your fault --- he's simply refusing to take responsibility for his own actions and choices as a real man ought to do. He does have responsibilities towards that child, but this does not include maintaining any other sort of relationship with the woman. And you're right that the mother who neglected her child and left him to be raised by you, should not be playing around with your husband --- but neither should he allow or tolerate that. What a childish and selfish man he is !
He fails to see that his duty is to the CHILD, not to continue any form of affair with their mothers. Of course you're not insane. Do consult a lawyer and a personal counsellor, and carefulyl consider your options
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