Our expert says:
It may be that you have become accustomed to more intense stimulation and need to resensitise yourself - focus on the sensations in your clitoris, ask him to periodically explore sucking air away just above your clitoris - this gives a cool sensation and should help you to connect with the sensations. YOu may also ask him not to shave - gentle application of facial hair around the clitoris can add friction. Adding additional factors that enhance arousal may also help - using fantasy or other forms of stimulation (e.g. playing with your breasts/nipples) may also enhance the experience. ALso consider other things that could contribute to a lessening of sensation: if you are on medication or have consumed too much alcohol, this could interfere with arousal and orgasm it could mean that more intense stimulation is required, if you are self conscious, or not directing him to what is pleasurable the stimulation will not be as good...
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