Our expert says:
If they hurt you consistently, why do you still consider them friends and allow them access to hurting you again ? And if they have got themselves into a mess, why on earth do you consider it YOUR duty to put things right for them ? That's NOT what friends are for - that's enabling, and encouraging people to become still more dysfunctional.
Of course this person is a user, and you are a usee - give them up, let them work on solving their own problems, get un-involved in their lives, and more involved in your own.
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