Our expert says:
qwerty, I don't believe that any relationship in which one partner uses emotional blackmail on the other, is successful in the mong0term, or even medium-term. Surely make certain that you don't give in to the blackmail, and don't sleep with her tonight. Tell her you can't fix the computer at all, or at least that you can't fix it with the distracton of anyone else there --- ten let her drop it off and tell her you'll call and tell her when it's fixed so she can pick it up. Then Fix the computer and help her to load it back into her car and say goodbye. If she might really become a stripper or sleep with other men just to spite you, she's a woman very well worthwhile being without ! The pain of parting is nothing compared to the pain she is likely to continue to inflict on your throughout any relationship you allow such a person to have with you.
A door needs to be open or shut. Either break up and keep it broken up ( probably the best option ) or if you really can't resist her, consider re-uniting only after the pair of you have worked for some time in relationship-counselling to see if the problems can be worked out.
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