Our expert says:
YOu will still need to discuss this with her --- you can't break off the engagement without explanation, nor discuss it without revealing how you found thematerial, even if it had not been your intention to snoop. The affair was bad enough, but the continuing contact while engaged to you is troubling, and can't be ignored.
And though she has a right to be angry and concerned about you accessing her emails, don't let her turn the entire discussion into that, when the central problem is that she appears to have been, and possibly to remain, unfaithful and keeping secrets from you. Don't start with too many assumptions, including the assumption that she is unavoidably "the one", Explore, discuss, and decide with a cooler head after discusson
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