Our expert says:
Self-esteem isn't really about what one has, or has done, but an inner relationship with your self and your sense of self, and low self-estem can influence your choice of potential partners, in a most unhelpful way. I understand the sort of answers you ae seeking, but they are simple enough to summarise in this format. But some counselling / therapy, preferabl of the CBT format, could help you a great deal, to find answers, and more usefully, find a different way of doing these things, a different and more useful set of conclusions ans assumptions, rather than just knowing why.
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