Our expert says:
As I see it there are two issues you raise in your post.
1. That you found it offensive to have someone screaming during their sexual activity in your immediate proximity and that the noise of this was an unwanted invasion of your own space.
2. That you believe that sex should be something “quiet, sensual and beautiful” and that it is difficult for you to understand how a woman could enjoy such rowdy sex.
If you separate the issues like this, it becomes a little easier to understand that you were understandably upset by the unwanted interruption of your privacy that prevented you from going to sleep. Sexual activity is usually a private affair, and the noisy assault of other people having sex close by can be experienced as an uncomfortable not to mention sleep depriving experience.
On the second issue, people are very different in how they enjoy and experience sexual activity. Some are more vocal than others, while some prefer quiet sensuality. This is something we should respect.
Anthony – SASHA. For further information please consult SASHA’S website at www.sexualhealth.qw.co.za/dru. For referral to a professional in your vicinity, please send an email to firstname.lastname@example.org.
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