Our expert says:
Firstly, I suspect the poor cat was at least as frightened as he was.
OK, your fiancee sounds HIGHLY anxious and jumpy, and surel deserves proper treatment to free him from these symptoms --- Cognitive-Behaviour Therapy from a therapist / counsellor, and probably some medications from a psychiatrist, including some also used for Depression. He may watch frightening TV shows and DVDs in an attempt to master his fears, but on its own it isn't helpful. He may feel better when he feels in control --- however nasty the video content, he can at the push of a putton stop it, or reverse it, and so on.
He's probably not insane, but he really truly sounds in need of proper competnet psych help
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