Our expert says:
This sort of swine will NEVER ever be a "changed man", so don't imagine that such a miracle could happen. He is an abuser, and dangerous. Call POWA who specialize in this sort of problem, and can provide you with support and help, and advice on how to plan for a safe escale for you and the child, probably including a court order that will have the rat thrown into jail if he ever approaches or bothers either of you again. As Paris says, if possible, have a friend take pictures to show your injuries, or at least to be a witness to them. Similarly, a doctor can note the injuries, as proof. And once you are free, lay criminal charges of assault, etc., against him. If he is likely to come to drag you from your parent's home, find a friend to stay with, or maybe POWA can help you find a safe refuge while the charges and restraining order are put in place. You are describing a man who has been emotionally abusive for some time, and has now become physically abusive and threatening death. He will always be a loser and abusive, and doesn't deserve your care.
The restraining order you got before is useless if you don't get the police to enforce it, or if you foolishly choose to go back to the abuser.
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