Our expert says:
Sounds like you are indeed over-generalizing from your previous experience to this present one. And before, you say that YOU broke up with the guy --- but then got very upset when he rapidly found a new friend, as if your real hurt is that he wasn't obviously devastated when YOU chose to break up with him. Think about that one. Your last bf DID NOT ( according to your story ) leave you for someone else --- you left him, and he found consoltation with someone else.
Why not accept your pal's suggestion, and see someone for some counselling, and have your bf join you, as he has seisibly volunteered to do ?
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