Our expert says:
You gave him another cance, several times, and he blew it every time. Funny, isnt it, how you were handling the separation well, UNTIl you heard that he was now happy with someone else. Why on earth should you have been "there for him" when it hardly sounds as if he spent much time being "there" for you ? From the start, he excessive attention to his friends was ominous, and he doesn't seem to have made any genuine effort to let you become more involved in his other friendships and activities --- that's not your fault. Maybe re-enter counselling for a while, and finish resolving these issues.
And Nina, ( and others ) maybe post here, in a fresh message, details of whatever good support groups you have found, with their contact details.
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