Our expert says:
Hi Mary, Sorry to hear you're feeling so bad and facing such disappointment. Obviously you now realize that its not often wise to get involved with someone with a history of failed relationships, or one with financial difficulties but big plans dependent on loans and support from you. Nor to allow such a man to impregnate you. He does sound excessively jealous, too.
Apart from what might indeed be am excessive sense of inferiority, he is presumably challenged by being so dependent on you - but can't he go out and get a job and support himself ?
Maybe consult a group like POWA about safe ways to leave such an emotionally abusive man ; it does indeed not sound as though there is any joy to be had by remaining with him. Do you have family or friends you could go to, for safety and security ? If the place where you stay belongs to you you could presumably have him removed and change the locks, and perhaps get a court order to forbid him from approaching you or your home or place of work, and he could be jailed if he ignores such an order.
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