Our expert says:
Clarify what's going on and what each of you is expecting of the other. Its not a good idea to invite someone to stay with you open-ended and without agreeing on terms - specify, in conversation with her, how long you expect her to stay, maybe 2 weeks - otherwise if can drag on for months and longer, and spoil the friendship. Presumably she's staying with you until she can find a place of her own ? Or does it suit you to share the costs and the place with her indefinitely ?
Presumably if your partner ordinarily lives with you, even if the lease is in your name, he would expect you to have consulted him, and your friend's stay is indeed meant to be strictly temporary. Maybe he feels inhibited sexually and emotionally, by having a stranger ( to him ) living with the pair of you ? Again, there are no external right answers anyone else can give you, you need to discuss this between you and make the fairest decision available to you
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