Our expert says:
I don't see why you should have to support the family if your father is just too lazy to do so, and chooses to spend more on his hobbies and pets than on his children.
His attitude to his supposed illness is, of course, ridiculous if he thinks he could be seriously ill ( which may be his excuse for not bothering to get work ) he needs to see a doctor, and would not possibly live longer for avoiding treatment - but by avoiding diagnosis, he can continue to live a lie.
Have you discussed all of this with your mother ?
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