Our expert says:
Why don't the pair of you see a good relationship counsellor, maybe through FAMSA< to work on improving the over-all quality of your relationship ? Talking about it simply betwen yourselves, seems to be spinning your wheels, and a counsellor could help this to be much more productive. Do NOT allow yourself to fall into the trap of trying to re-shape yourself, physically or mentally, to fit his fantasies --- why shouldn't he rather shape his fantasies to fit available realities ? And what makes him think thatb he is so immensely sexually desirable that he doesn't ever need to change or compromise, and so utterly perfect that he couldn;t join you in counselling so as to help you both be happier ? It sounds a though the primary need for change lies on his side, with his insistance that women have to be impossibly perfect to suit his fancies.
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