Our expert says:
It doesn't sound like the move is a very good idea, but we obviously can't make such a major decision for you. Maybe a session or two with a good local counsellor would help you to examine all aspects of this situation and make a wiser decision yourself ? Are there really very good reasons for your bf to move to Cape Town ? It sounds as though this would be disruptive for you and your child and family, with no real advantages. How secure is this relationship ? What are the chances that you might break up there, and be left all alone in CT ?
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