Our expert says:
Maybe it's just me, but I think that the most interesting people don't usually go to bars and clubs, and the noise levels usual; to such places make it hard to find out if anyoen actually IS interesting. I agree that the escort route isn't a healthy lifestyle ( though having sex with people you don't know well, met at bars and clubs, is unlikely to be any safer ). I gather that many intelligent escorts say that many customers actually want pleasant conversation, sometimes instead of sex --- pity we don't have better non-sexual ways of meeting people for conversation, which so many folks want.
Personal counselling really could help here. As others say, there could be many factors at play here --- fear of committment, of rejection, whatever, related to prior experiences ( a principle widely recognized for hundreds of years before Ron Hubbard borrowed the old concept and dressed it up as "engrams !)
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