Our expert says:
Sometimes we are a bit too slow to learn the obvious lessons from a situation or experience ; sometimes we over-learn and over-generalize from one bad experience, and assume that the same will happen every other such situation, even if in fact they are significantly diference.
And sometimes we use a bad tactic - fearful of being dumped again, we dump others, or dump ourselves too soon, so that while this is always disappointing, at least we feel in charge of the decision and the dumping.
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