Our expert says:
Repeatedly bringing up your companion's past mistakes, as though they were winning cards in a game, is uncouth and never useful. Everyone makes mistakes ; wise people make NEW mistakes, having learned from the old ones enough not to repeat them.
This guy started a relationship with you when you were really young and vulnerable. Hopefully, you have grown up, but maybe he hasn't. This sounds more like an arrangement than a real relationship. Either agree that any relationship is now over and the pair of you can do as you wish in your private lives, but live together as a cobnvenient way of sharing expenses ( if you can emotionally actually do that ) ; or see a couples counsellor together ; or consider breaking up and moving on.
You may feel some sort of love for him, but nothing you describe about him suggests it is matched by love from him.
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