Our expert says:
The conflict is probably not about the facebook messages as such, mut suggests that all is not well between you in other ways, too, and couples counselling would probably be the best way to sort this out. It sounds VERY much as though your bf was looking for an excuse to call off the wedding, as he is grossly over-reacting to the ostensible issue. He sounds insecure, excessively possessive and jealous, and ferankly maybe not ready for marirage, even after 6 years. Counselling might be able to sort it out. Its not for you to "build up the trust" again --- what, for another 6 years ? Becaue he is insecure ? People who over-react and accuse their partner of infidelity may have been unfaithful in some way themselves.
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