Our expert says:
He was dishonest not to tell you about his debts before entering into a relationship in which he apparently expects yopu to support him. He ought to see a bank or similar financial advisor to sort out his own debts, and not expect you to carry him. A court can decide what amount of maintenance would be fair for you, if it is possibly too low. Tell him calmly and pleasantly that you are struggling to make ends meet, and just cannot afford to maintain him. Maybe he ought to turn to his family at this time. LOok ater yourself and your kids before him ; surely he can find some sort of job ? And both of you ought to avoid any debts you can, and follow the principles our parents stuck to --- if we can't afford it, we don't get it.
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