Our expert says:
His marriage needsd to be over or they need to formally and honestly both agree to make a proper go of it again, including marriage counselling. For him to try to maintain a relationship, with both of you is unfair to both of you. And then he cheats, and goes to bars ? The proble isn't that you are trying to control his life, bu t that he is not bothering to properly control his own life. You know his claims that everything will get better are merely stories, and that he is doing nothing to bring that about. Move on. Keeping you isolated froom his friends, and not going out with you is high;ly suspicious. It wounds more as though he is married and intends to stay that way, and is keeping you as a convenient mistress. See a good local counsellor to work on your self-esteem and assertiveness, and move on --- you deserve much, much better than this !
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