Posted by: Julia | 2009/07/09

Reference to ex' s.

Hi, My boyfriend constantly makes references to his ex' s in comparison to me. We have been together for over a year. When we fight he' d say ex#1 didn' t have a problem with this. Or if someone tells him, your girl is soo hot he says " well I' ve dated hot chics before"  this has still a little better to when we first started dating. Everywhere we went or everything we did, he' d tell me the he used to drive this way ever day to see ex#1 or " ex#1 and I did this or wanted to do that"  Ex#1 was with him for 5 years so i let it slide for a while. Evetually i exploded. He stopped but he still compares me to ex' s. So today we were talking about an email he sent about women over 30 and he asked if I would start behaving like that once I turned 30 cause that' s what he signed up for. I told him not a chance. I' m Sagetarius and Sage' s have the Peter Pan syndrome and never grow up. So he pipes up, that he' s dated a Sage before... I flipped again. Am I over reacting? It' s really getting to me. He even compares his ex' s to me in front of or to other people. Is this exeptable?

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What thoroughly bad manners he has. He sounds highly insecure and needing to boast to make himself sound big. You're not over-reacting --- why do you want to stay attached to this boy, rather than looking for a man confident enough to appreciate the real woman he is with ?

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Posted by: Ja | 2009/07/10

Someone said you' re " soooo hot" ? Ther you have it then. Youre hot! What does he have to do with THAT? Youre HOT! HOT, HOT, HOT!

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