Our expert says:
OK he doesn't sound mature enough or unselfish enough to be a fit father, and it is wise to consider such things long before marrying or settling in with someone, let alone having children. But that's not a reason to just stop having sex with him - its a reason to leave him and live your own life.
Separately, I think its important for people to think about the consequences of having children qwhen they are older than usual - it often means, for instance, that one or more of the parents will die while the children are still young - is that fair to the children ?
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