Posted by: Blackwidow | 2008/08/05

RE: Weet nie meer

Thanks CS &  Bob se meisie for the insight and explanations, about the argueing, I suspected it'  s his way of protecting himself. What can I do to help him though

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Avoiding arguments as best you can, look for opportunities to discuss calmly these issues--- emphasizing what ( as much as you can find ) you LIKE about what he does, and reminiscen about how much you liked things he used to do --- encouraging him not to feel too bad about himself, to know that you value aspects of him which he could do more of, and not to see talking about such things as necessarily either an argument of a criticism of him

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Posted by: Blackwidow | 2008/08/06

Thanks CS will put your advice to the test.

Bob' s girlfriend:
Ek verstaan wat jy probeer se, maar ek is konserwatief in ' n mate en glo nie aan weghol nie, ek wil hom so graag help sodat ons ook kan gelukkig wees, ek en my kinders is baie lief vir hom en hy is ook tog die pa van my kinders. Ek sal aanhou probeer tot op die laaste want miskien eendag, as ek nou moet loop, sal ek wonder of dit na alles tog kon werk. Baie dankie vir jou raad

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Posted by: Bob' s girlfriend | 2008/08/05

Jy is seer. Jy het ' n breek nodig. Jy het liefde nodig. Jy wil gerespekteer word. Jy wil bederf word. En jy gaan baie lank wag vir hom om dit te doen.

Dis hoekom ek voorgestel het dat jy bietjie weggaan - net sodat hy kan sien " hoe is die lewe sonder jou"  - dat hy kan besef hy is die probleem.

Hoekom wil ons vrouens altyd ma speel? Tot vir die man in ons lewens? Ons wil hulle moeder?

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