Our expert says:
OK, understandable reasons ( though he should also consult a labour lawyer / CCMA / Dept of Labour about the offense of Constructive Dismissal when an employer tries to push someone out of their job ). Its unfortunate that there has been more fighting recently, but of course much of that could be due to the stress you are both under at present.
And remember, when a good shrink declines an invitation to make life decisions for you ( quacks are eager to make your decisions ) its both because they aren't actually able to do so with any more wisdom than you are, and because it wouldnt help --- it really does need to be your decision. As John says, I think you want to stay, and would welcome someone telling you to do so --- your motivation to go is out of affection for your bf and not wanting to be someone who might be seen as abandining him. But it looks as though you have not really known each other for long enough to be sure whether this translocationwould work out, or whether it would actually, in the end, benefit either of you
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