Our expert says:
Sad indeed. Apparently he feels, not unusually, conflicted loyalties. I have no idea how he might react if you showed him my reply - I know a little about you, from your message, I know nothing about him. He probably wouldn't like the way I characterized his mother !
SOme kids, and interestingly its often those who don't receive so much direct and unambiguous love, are trained to fel they have to EARN love and approval from their parents, rather than receiving the unconditional love every child should get. So if the parents, especially the mother, are acting offended, even if the issue was their own darn fault, he will feel insecure and upset.
But if I understood your original message, he had the sense and courage to back you in Dub ai and move with you to a hotal, making it clear her rages were unacceptable. Maybe congratulate him and support him on this show of honour and bravery in standing up for himself and his children and his wife.
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