Our expert says:
As Tanya says, it only needs once to produce a pregnancy, and both of you acted thoughtlessly and irresponsibly ; but he is now behaving especially badly. It sounds as though he is pushing for an abortion for his own selfish reasons, raher than considering the best for you and the innocent child. The blame is NOT all yours, and he isn't much of a man if he fails to acknowledge his own full responsibility.
If you go ahead and have the child, it is essential that you go to court to have it prove that he is the biological father, and to order him to pay appropriate maintenance for the child's benefit until the child is an adult.
If his family are outraged by what was HIS behaviour, and he loses anything, it will be a direct result of what he chose to do, and not your fault. Do not accept the blame ; make your own decision and don't decide on an abortion just because it would be more convenient and cheaper for him.
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