Posted by: Jakes | 2005/11/22

Re: Hurting

I read your post. If you look back it is my story, except in my case was a lesbian situation. I also begged for months for a clean break. I was ignored. This 3rd person in between totally stops reconcilliation in it's tracks - no chance. I think I know how you hurt. I also forgave just to be kicked again and again. I have no advice to offer - just to live with the pain and - so I hear - it will get better. Go with the counseling, but the way I feel is if he does not make a clean break he cannot be helped. It seems if he wants his bread buttere both sides. As CS said it is totally fair of you to insist on a clean break. He has to make a choice

You did not say how long you are married and what age group. Good luck and I will pray for you.

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Posted by: Wit Zombie | 2005/11/22

Jakes: Hiers vir jou n grappie. Hoop dit help..

Little Johnny came down for breakfast one morning and asked his

"Where's Mom and dad?" and she replied,

"they're up in bed."

Little Johnny started to giggle and ate his breakfast and went out

Then he came back in for lunch and asked his grandma .

"Where's Mom and Dad?" and she replied,

"They're still up in bed."

Again Little Johnny started to giggle and he ate his lunch and went
to play.

Then Little Johnny came in for dinner and once again he asked his

"Where's Mom and Dad?" and his grandmother replied,

"They're still up in bed. "

Little Johnny started to laugh and his grandmother asked,

"What gives? Every time I tell you they're still up in bed you
start to

What is going on here?"

Little Johnny replied, "Well last night Daddy came into my bedroom

asked me for the Vaseline and I gave him SUPER GLUE."

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Posted by: Buzz | 2005/11/22

I'm thinking of you Jakes, it can't be easy. Hope your day perks up a little, think of your holiday and I'm sure it'll put a smile on your dial!!!

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Posted by: Tango | 2005/11/22

Well, if you ok with hugs I am sending you one!

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Posted by: Jakes | 2005/11/22

Very frail this morning - sort of teary. She is going to see her shrink again today and sleep over at a friend of ours (who knows and is standing by us - me mostly because I did take her secretly into my confidence. Tks for asking, Buzz - you seem to have a 6th sense

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Posted by: Buzz | 2005/11/22

How are you doing Jakes?

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