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People often find it hard to expres in words the emotions they are feeling, sometimes not even recognizing those emotions themselves. And in some of these situations, every alternative leads to some form of heartsore, sometimes there's no right answer, and we have to choose the least wrong answer. I don't see the point in begging someone to stay with you if they don't love you and don't act loving towards you --- you deserve someone far better and more appreciative of your good qualities. Yes, losing him may feel hurtful ---but keeping him could be even more huirtful in the long run.
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Kitty --- PLEASE don't ask new questions inside the thread of someone else's question, it makes it far harder for me to answer, and most of the time it means I'll never ever see the question at all. Briefly, it's nonsense for him to blame his cruelty after drinking on the wine, without taking personal responsibility for it --- whatever he does when drunk, is the fault of the idiot who chooses to drink the wine, knowing that he gets cruel and unpleasant when he has drunk it. I don't understand, from your question, what reason, other than perhaps hoping he might help with the child ( he must still be held responsible for paying maintenance for the child and for your expenses ) you might have for wanting to stay with a guy who sounds so unloving and so irresponsible.
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