Our expert says:
I do understand, that some father's are excessively protective of their kids, especially daughters ( just as, sadly, some fathers are far too little protective of them). A god father won't encourage you to do something that is doomed to fail, yet he shouldn't be too pessimistic and discouraging, where you have a good chance of success.
As San says, is he scared of eing alone when you leave ? There could be other solutions for that problem, if so.
But shouldn't it be a first priority for you and your bf to become finaicially secure and independent, so you can afford your own place in the long term, and can afford a further child and the happy life you all deserve ?
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