Our expert says:
WHY does he want them ? And why are you scared to have them ? There are many possible answers to each of those questions. Does he genuinely want to be a father, to enjoy the lifelong responsibility of raising kids ? Or does he just want to prove what he might think of as manhood, by showing that he can bio-father pregnancies ? And What is the basis of your fear ? Do you not feel capable of mothering the children, or are you scared of child-birth and pregnancy ? Don't rush into this, and don't rush away from it, either. See a good local psychologist firstly on your own, to explore and understand your fears, and hopefully to settle them, and then perhaps a couple of sessions along with him, to synchronize your views on parenthood
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