Our expert says:
As I understand it, your shrink's advice is to produce a form of polite ultimatum, firmly making it clear that even occasional abuse is intolerable, and he needs to decide to seek help to enable him to stop this --- not to push him into a particular solution, but to make it clear that you expect him to find a solution or to leave. And as you say "sorry is not enough" --- it is sorry in actions, not words, that is required.
Work towards your own freedom, within or without the marriage.
As for asking the shrink to bhe available for the Jol ? Have you seen what they charge for such services ? :}
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